The Second Impulse

Better mad with the rest of the world than wise alone.

Believe in your product, believe in yourself

Excogitations

Recently I found myself inspired by waffles, real Belgian zucker waffles.  Do you know the difference between real Belgian zucker waffles and American waffles?  Yeast dough.  Real Belgian zucker waffles use yeast, essentially a brioche dough while Americanized waffles use baking powder.  I didn’t really find the waffles themselves to be inspiring.  Yes, they were quite tasty.  I found the man selling the waffles inspiring.  He believed, truly honestly believed, he sold the best thing in the city.  His belief was contagious.  Without his verve and vigor, these waffles probably wouldn’t have tasted as awesome as they did.

Belief creates reality.  He believed in his product.  He sold them by talking about their virtue, not demeaning the quality of others.  He sold them by attempting to get me to see the product as he saw it. He did this by giving me a free sample, by talking about the process, the ingredients, and the European ethic behind the food.

I walked away from the little shop feeling very enthusiastic about waffles.  I also walked away with a new found admiration for a quality sales person.  Everything this man sold in that little shop was the best.  The best chocolate, because it was Belgian chocolate and Belgium is the only country with chocolate purity laws. The best real Italian gelato, which was the best for a reason I can’t recall.

A couple months ago, my company told me my job would be outsourced in May and because of that, I would no longer have a position at the company.  This hiccup put me in a position of finding a new job which is very much about selling oneself.  Imagine taking that belief the waffle guy had in his product and apply it to yourself.

I’m not going to lie, I really dislike the idea that I’m going around thinking I’m the best possible person for a job when there is rational empirical evidence to the contrary.  Yet, for the absolute sake of personal sanity and maintaining some semblance of dignity, it is vital to have that belief. In life we are really only selling one product: ourselves. If we don’t believe in the product then when we try to sell it, we will sound like used car salesman.  We will sound like we are reading off a checklist written up by someone else.  We won’t understand why we are the best product available.  We will blend in with the countless others who also don’t believe they are the best product available.

We need to know our skills, know when we are awesome, and truly believe it.  Through that belief we will be able to talk about our projects, our goals, our lives with the same vigor of that waffle salesman.  Quite honestly, he made me believe that if I didn’t try his waffles I would be missing out on one of the greatest things in the city.  Isn’t that what we want from potential employers?  We want them to feel as though if they don’t at least give us a chance, give us an interview, give us the project,  they will be missing out on something terrific.  And you know what? They will be.

Nobody uses the internet on Fridays

Curiosities

Another Friday and there the internet sits, unused.  It reminds me of the poor hamster left in the classroom for the weekend when all the kids go home.  It is happy to finally be left alone without all the tap-tap-tapping on its hamster cage and all those snotty fingers trying to pet it, but in the sudden silence, it wonders if the din of the classroom activities will ever return.  The internet is the same way.  It is happy that it isn’t being asked to arrange pink slip mixers, seek out obscure quotes from a long dead actor, or locate old flames of people in sad marriages, but it also wonders if maybe its heyday is gone.  Maybe a new fad has taken over.  It has heard good things about that cup and ball toy.

I’m here to remind the internet that it isn’t just a passing fad.  While the world may not be using the internet on Friday, I’ll play the role of the janitor, coming into the classroom and giving the hamster a new toilet paper roll to chew on until the kids return.

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Five Ways to Celebrate Springtime in March

Domesticity, Featured Posts

I felt it this morning.  I thought I felt it last month, but I truly felt it this morning.  Spring is coming.  In Chicago there are still large piles of snow in the middle of parking lots and I’m still very appreciative of my heavy blankets at night, but there is something in the air.  It is the hope that the gloom of a gray Chicago winter is about to be chased away with the glory and wonder of a bright beautiful Chicago spring.  Such hope makes me start to ponder the kind of activities I can partake in now that the snow will soon be gone.

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The Orchard is Filled with Apples Worm-Ridden and Not

Fictional

AUTHOR NOTE: I was rummaging through my closets and I came upon a stack of notebooks filled with random writing. I remember writing the piece I am presenting here in reaction to the a few things. First, I would get upset when I see a movie or read a book that could have been so much better than it was. Part of my problem was because it had been done no one would try to do it again. Second, I felt I was doing this to myself as well. I’d have a great idea for a story, write it out, and it didn’t live up to the potential in my head. At least when it relates to just my work, I can rework it and fine tune it, but I still feel like I sucked some vital essence from the original idea.

Of all the stuff I’ve written I can’t honestly say why I like this particular story. I think I really like the main character’s oblivious persistence to his craft. While I see myself as Trent in the story, I want to be the nameless main character.  Oh, and please forgive the title.  I recently watched a documentary about Harlan Ellison.  I’ll leave it at that.

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Nobody uses the internet on Friday

Curiosities

Do you want to know a secret?

Today is Friday and the fact of the matter is, nobody, I mean NOBODY uses the internet on Friday.  It is like finding out there is a perfectly good sports car in the garage with the keys in it and nobody is driving it.  WWFBD? What would Ferris Bueller do? That’s right.  Take it, use it, and then make the internet go backwards to make it look like he didn’t use it at all.

Remember what Ferris said, “Life moves pretty fast, if you don’t stop and look around once in awhile you could miss it.” So what kind of ’stop and smell the roses’ trouble can we get into today?
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